Forgiveness!

My friend, best friend, my person, my girlfriend, my blah blah person, and many more terms I had heard in the past two years. I also perceive the everyday change in the definition of the term in my surroundings. People can be sorry for what they did, but when it is the turn for you to feel that sorry. It takes a lot of time to put things out of the heart and to move. The one more thing is someone can say sorry again and again, but what can be done is we should accept the feeling and the fact that sometimes situations can go out of control. To forgive someone is tough. It becomes toughest where you have a strong attachment that makes the situation worse. The days you are broken, the time you are crying hard, the urge in your heart to run away from the circumstances always create a void in your heart, and no apologies can fill that, the least you can do is to make yourself understand to let the thing go from your heart. The path is not effortless will take a lot from you to get back to be the same again. The sadism we have and the silence we always demand after a lot of crying is to understand more the situation that we do not overreact, we did not over love, and maybe we start to over control. Once after the whole roller coaster ride of forgiveness, it will provide you with a lot of peace in your heart.
Previous Sunday, I went to a café and was sitting behind a couple where the man told the women that “the habit of stretching fights will break our relation” I laughed and tried to avoid their conversation. The evening when I was coming back to the hostel, I saw a girl who said “will you please stop always making me feel bad for expressing” to someone on a phone call, her eyes are rolling with tears. At that moment the best thing I can do is leave her alone. The night I remembered it was two, I cannot help myself from forgetting the face of the girl and the statements. The bond will remain forever or not, but the statement will remain with them forever. I am no one to tell how the situation can be deal with as it varies always, but one thing I find is no words should harm anyone that let someone doubt their existence, that let someone doubt on their body, that let someone doubt on their dignity and let someone feel sorry for expressing.