I don’t understand how people let go of relations easy. When someone is giving their time, someone is sharing little things. You match a vibe with them. Suddenly, the person disappears all the feelings faded away. I did not get the concept like how people do this, is there is no attachment they feel? Are they did not feel the ache in their heart?
After talking for such a long, sharing some stuffs, talk something real. We did not expect them to disappear. We can not expect them to become strangers again!
You know when a person stops talking, there are thousands of thoughts that come across the mind and, it kills them. You have been sharing things and, you feel it is all gone!
I usually hear this thing that people say “nobody will die if they don’t talk”, but it changed the person from both inside and outside. It requires us to push ourselves daily from getting up in bed in the morning to getting in bed at night.
Give your time wisely to the person you think deserves it. If we want to end relations with someone, make their thoughts clear, do not leave them abandoned so, they question themselves every day, Be kind you do not have idea what impact your words could do in someone life…..
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Author: shruti sharma
APOLOGIES, APPRECIATED AND BONDS.
One should know where to apologizes and where to appreciate people for their efforts keeping your ego attitude aside, to make the person feel wanted, to make that person feels loved. Half of the problem could save here and many relationships, friendships could preserve.
Today sitting on the terrace with a mug of coffee, when I look back realized at some time, I thought that these relations do not break. How can these bonds break, how could we stop talking, but back to reality?. Those all people are as stranger with some memories, and looking back to memories give me a different heartache which feels so numb, zip coffee again, life goes on back to reality, and now this weather feels more freeze!
Growing up, getting new perceptions about life, one in every time, is what I get is we lost many bonds in these past years. We had thought that would be a lifetime. But in all those loses and gains of the bond, some constant people in our life, who are just a call away who are a text away and believe me talking to them feels privileged, to have them on your back feels like a hot tea in mountain camps. Every bond requires both sided efforts. Not every relationship will keep moving for long with the endeavor of one.
THEN V/S NOW!!!
It is strange that how we react normal to things now which matter to us, It's peculiar how we handle that hard ache on heart alone, It seems beautiful when we see how long we have come, That now situation affect us least, And acceptance hit us hard, There were days when we cry in the corner, Now taking a deep breath looking into the window and realizing this too shall pass, We exist then also and now also, The difference is that there we cry, we extract ourselves from people, But now we smile, we nod, we move, and life happens. We accept us then but, we love our self and pat our back now…
INTUITION
We talk, we feel good, we attached, we detach, we got hurt, and life goes on.
Being happy and sad are all emotions we face daily. There exist a suffering for both of them emotions which we have to pay it. Today people suffer more mentally than physically. It is a strange feeling when our heart really aches. It felt a hard pain inside it. Here comes the point tears suddenly comes out because we have been holding things too much. We have been stressing things so much in our minds.
Overthinking should not be avoided because something is troubling you, there some action occurs which made you think that. There is some intuition that made you feel that. If something does not feel good, it does not need to feel right. There something you feel like telling, you should explain.
Trust your intuition, trust the vibe, trust the feeling, because these are the thing which will not create this are natural and pure.
You deserve someone who will appreciate for you are and bring a positive change in you, not the one who wants change in you to accept you. It is not love. It’s is more important than how you are treated than how you love someone……
CHANGE!!!
We always compare our past from our present, We compare people from our past to our present, we compare situations……… There is always beauty in a moment that is unique in its way, comparing them faint their importance from our life. Memories became with a person, not with the place. It created with the soul with we have spent the time, not with the place we used, there is no doubt that it makes the memories more beautiful. Change is the new normal in the present era. We require to shift from this place to another, these people to another group of people. We always use the slang “they don’t have that vibe”, but they have the vibe, which needs to be respected and accepted every time. We don’t get the same type of person we get different in the same pattern of bodies, everyone gives us a lesson for life no matter it is good or bad. I want to end this blog with few lines of micro-fiction: – Talking to him always like a warm blanket, laughing out loud in his lamest jokes because his face looks cuter, who knows that the journey will start with a condition, the condition will be fulfilled, but that soul is no longer be respected and no longer wanting in life. LOVE TO MY READERS:).
STRANGER TALK!!!
I was coming back to my house from my friend’s house. I was ready to start my Scotty. I met a guy who told me you write so well!!!
And damn there when someone comments on your artistic work is more attractive than any physic quality, I talk with him maybe for less than 5 minutes and move towards my home.
I was smiling all the way to my home, when I reached I sat with my parents and had tea with them. They told me you look so happy today, the reason for happiness was not that I come home after chilling with my friends, the reason was not that my favorite person called, the reason was not that I had my favorite food, the only reason was I talk to the stranger and he appreciates my creative work.
This was the reason which fills my ear, which empowered my mind with positivity, which push myself out of my comfort zone and do more better this kind of positivity we all need in our life to grow and to bring that confidence back when the number of views and number of likes is decreasing consistently.
I see people sharing the lamest memes, un logistic trends on Instagram and then they think twice to share their friend artistic/creative page. I want to ask why????
Are these lowering your standard, your class?????
Be faithful to your friends. You can say there is no improvement, you can improve, you can add these, but don’t reply like a 10-year-old I am not interested in this!!!
You can go through it and help your friends!!!
Never act like kids, they are putting their whole hard work, to start those things, you need to help them, listen to them when they need you, it took a lot of courage, betrayal, lots of overthinking, tons of suggestions to start, help them.
Love to my readers😊.
CAN WE???
What will happen if we take things as they are, What will happen if the word overthinking disappears, Then life will sound more peaceful to many souls, In the era of betrayal, heartbroken can we make one-person smile, Just make them feel that they are precious, Can we make people happy by using our words……?
DETACH MYSELF!!!
Why people enter in our life when they are no longer to stay. Nothing is constant, permanent we usually hear this line in our day to day life.
I like to run, like to detach myself from people because I can’t bear the pain of losing them, I can’t fetch the agony of coming this closer to me know all of me and suddenly became the stranger like whom I never talk.
I acquired this habit, not by choice but to maintain the peace around me. In my social life, in my virtual life, I stop talking to people, I make distance maybe they could be my friends now, but I lost them, it perhaps not making any sense to me know, but at that time it was giving me peace to my unconsciousness mind that I won’t be hurt now!!!!!!!!!!
Getting hurt, lost some friends is a thought which horrifies me. Some people used to say to me everything is temporary, nothing is constant I want to say to those people when life apart us to different end, we will see but being knowing me, you are creating that pain, again and again, I want to ask why????
Every person is sensitive, mean every person, either its boy or girl!!!
If you value your words, then talk rather than making false hope in someone’s heart and wasting both of us time……
Stay happy stay the same lot of love to my readers😊.
LOVE FOR DARKNESS:).
In the past year, I realize that my love for nights increased it feel so warm the reason behind that darkness allows me to see within myself for a pinch of time that makes me proud of my long journey which, I came through all over alone fighting between my mind, heart, tons of overthinking.
This generation is so much anxious and carve for people to love them. They tie a bond maybe with the wrong person in fear of being left alone that horrifies them. If you want people to love you, you want to love yourself first. Acceptance is what we need but, it comes within from us first. In our childhood, we taught many lessons of life where are they now? we are not grown up for waking up late nights and waiting for replies whom we don’t know the person will be there on the next day when we need them? Never waste your nights, days for a person either to invest them in ourselves.
Loneliness hit all of us hard in a long way of life, everyone had experienced it once, don’t afraid to be alone who want to be with you will find a way those who don’t will never meant for you!!! Love yourself, value yourself, don’t crave for love of people.
Thank you for reading this lots of love to you all😊.
3AM THOUGHTS.
"Why sometimes night feel so warm, sometimes so harsh and hard to pass, It was the memories that brings some pain, Now we sleep in the love of unconsciousness...."

